He walked 1,000 miles on bloody feet. Now this ‘Lost Boy of Sudan’ helps other refugees
As seen in The Fresno Bee.
HANFORD - Sometimes when refugees are at their lowest emotional point in his office in Hanford, Jacob Awar Ayuen, a psychiatric physician assistant, will tell the patients his own story of being a lost boy, walking thousands of miles to escape a bloody civil war.
“Being somebody of that background myself who went through a war-torn country – from refugee camp to refugee camp with no food, no shoes – I feel like I can relate to them.”
He was about 8 years old in 1987 when civil war in Sudan drove him and an estimated 20,000 other boys, mostly ages 8 to 12, to walk 1,000 miles from their villages to safety, first to Ethiopia, and eventually to a refugee camp in Kenya.
Ayuen, now a 39-year-old medical professional dressed in a dark suit and shiny black shoes, recalls the terror-filled, barefoot trek: “Four or five times we were caught in crossfire where some of us were killed.”
He and the others who survived the unforgiving journey came to be called “The Lost Boys of Sudan” for their likeness to the orphaned boys in “Peter Pan.” In 2001, the United States accepted 4,000 of those refugees, who came to begin new lives in a country at peace. Ayuen was one of them.
But armed conflict seemed to follow him. His arrival in America was delayed by the 9/11 terror attacks.
And fighting in South Sudan is never far from his mind. Ayuen has family still there. South Sudan continues to uproot people. Kakuma, the Kenyan refugee camp that Ayuen left in 2001, is full once again of children and families. The 20-year-old civil war in Sudan ended in 2005, but peace didn’t last long. After South Sudan gained independence in 2011, a civil war erupted in 2013. A 2015 peace agreement dissolved in 2016 and fighting, mostly along ethnic lines, has continued.
“People are still suffering, still dying,” Ayuen says.
He has brought children out of war-torn South Sudan to Kenya to go to school. It’s a way he can make life better for people who remain in the country that he fled as a Lost Boy three decades ago.
On bleeding, swollen feet
Ayuen was herding cattle outside his village when the warning came.
It was not safe to stay.
Young boys in southern Sudan often lived in cattle camps away from their families, and Ayuen was at such a camp in 1987 when war erupted. There was no time, and it was too dangerous, to go home to his mother. He followed older men who led the young herders out of the camp.
Barefoot, barely clothed, Ayuen walked until his feet bled. And walked some more. “You step on something sharp and you just keep moving. You can’t dig it out. After awhile, you get used to it.”
There were nights without sleep and days filled with fear when wild animals chased him.
“Some killed by lion. Some give up because they couldn’t keep walking. Some die of thirst.”
They ate anything.
“Whatever we were killing is what we would eat. Or you would just eat the wild foods, the leaves. I know at one point they had to kill an elephant and we were lucky to get something to eat.”
After three months and 1,000 miles from the cattle camp he had fled, Ayuen and the other boys crossed the border to Ethiopia. No one greeted them. There were no buildings. No homes. No running water. The boys divided into groups of about a dozen. Ayuen helped build houses, chopping trees and cutting grass with machetes for thatched roofs.
By 1991, the Ethiopian camp had become a refugee haven. The United Nations had built a school and Ayuen was in third grade.
But normalcy did not last. Ethiopia was at war and the inhabitants of the camp were in danger. Four years after he had fled Sudan, he had to go back through the strife-ridden country to reach the border with Kenya.
It was the same unforgiving trip.
The boys once again fought hunger, thirst, wild animals. They were shot at as they reached the banks of the the Gilo, a wide, fast-moving river. To avoid bullets, they dove and swam underwater. Ayuen knew how to swim, but even some of the boys who could swim drowned, pulled underwater by others who could not.
The boys continued on foot to Pochalla, a small town in southern Sudan where they huddled for two months. But as the civil war raged closer, they moved to another town near the Kenyan border. Within hours, they had to run. A day later, they stopped to rest, Ayuen recalls. “There was nothing there. No houses, buildings, running water. Just like the wild forest. We just sleep in trees.”
They walked farther to another town, and a rescue convoy came three weeks later. Ayuen hopped into the back of a cattle truck packed with refugees going to Kakuma.
He entered fourth grade at a school at the Kakuma Refugee Camp that local Kenyans had built for the children.
A good student, by the end of elementary school he had earned high grades and was allowed to attend a high school outside the refugee camp. In addition to his native Dinka and some Swahili, he spoke English.
His studiousness would help him be selected as one of 4,000 Lost Boys to be resettled in the United States. He broke the news to friends at the camp: “I am going to America.”
On Sept. 11, 2001, he was on a plane to the United States. An hour before the plane was to land in New York, two airline jets crashed into the World Trade Center’s twin towers.
“None of us could believe that America could be attacked by planes,” Ayuen says. Passengers were scared, anxious and worried, but he remained calm as the pilot diverted the plane to Newfoundland, Canada. “This was not the worst experience for us.”
In the United States, Ayuen would be settled in Vermont. He lived with a host family for two weeks before moving into an apartment with five other Lost Boys. They cooked together, played soccer and dominoes, attended church. And they got jobs – Ayuen at a soap factory.
It was culture shock.
“In the factory, you have to deal with the supervisor … you don’t know how it works. Break time, go to the bathroom. Get back to work. Assembly line. The machine is moving very fast. You’re too slow. The supervisor is saying you have to get things going.”
The United States did not match the image of the country he and his friends had created in their minds. “A lot of people actually think it’s better back home. Whether you have no electricity, running water or no security.”
At the same time, Ayuen says, people left behind in South Sudan expected financial help from the Lost Boys who had made it to America. “You’re making $7 an hour, pay all the bills and try to send some money.”
But he had a plan when he came to the United States, and it did not involve quitting: He would become a citizen, go to college and have a career.
While attending community college in Vermont he worked at the factory and got another job at the American Red Cross, screening blood donors. “It’s America. If you work hard, go to college you can get a job and you can improve your life. And I’m a living example of that. I went to college and I work and I have so many jobs.”
Ayuen came to Adventist Health Community Care in Hanford in 2014 as a psychiatric physician assistant after graduating from Union College, a Seventh-day Adventist college in Lincoln, Nebraska. Ayuen had attended college on a National Health Service Corps scholarship that required service after graduation in an underserved area. Hanford met that requirement, and Ayuen says Adventist Health aligned with his values and personal beliefs.
Gary L. Hoffman, the behavioral health services clinical director, says “patients took” to Ayuen. “A lot of the concerns that our patients bring to us have to do with the challenges they face, integrating into a community, being uprooted, displaced.”
Hoffman hasn’t talked with Ayuen about being a Lost Boy, but he’s been amazed and impressed at how he has established himself in the community. “I appreciate him as a colleague and a friend, and I hope he’s with us for a long time to come.”
Helping family back home
Ayuen had an incentive to build a career when he came to the United States. Before leaving Kakuma Refugee Camp, he had proposed to Alakiir Deng, another refugee. He needed money for a bride’s price – a dowry – to marry and to bring Deng to the United States.
Deng, 35, had experienced her own harrowing escape from her village in southern Sudan in 1988. She was only 3 years old but had to walk the 1,000 miles to the refugee camp in Ethiopia. Her mother carried a younger brother.
And on the journey four years later from the Ethiopian camp to Kenya, Deng says her stepmother was shot in her left foot before the family reached the Kenyan border. “We just tie the foot not to bleed out and we move on.”
Deng met Ayuen at the elementary school at the Kakuma Refugee Camp. They wed in Kenya in 2004.
After the wedding, Ayuen returned to the United States to continue his education and to save money to bring Deng, who was pregnant with twin boys, to the United States. Ayuen briefly returned to Kenya to visit his wife and sons Biar and Mach in 2007; twin daughters, Nyang and Apajok, would be born in 2008.
Deng and the children joined Ayuen in 2008 in Omaha, Nebraska.
It was a difficult time, Deng says. In her home country, neighbors would drop by for tea and to chat, but in the United States she felt isolated. “My husband have to work and have to go to school and I have to take care of kids all the time. I have to stay in the house.”
Deng is now studying to be a licensed vocational nurse, taking classes in Fresno. She and Ayuen, the two sets of twins and younger daughters, Ayak, 7, and Abeny, 3, live in a two-story home in a gated community in Hanford. They have made friends with neighbors, attending children’s birthday parties.
But they miss South Sudan – weddings, dances and cultural interactions.
And Deng and Ayuen worry about family and friends who remain in South Sudan. Among them are Deng’s mother, father and a brother. Ayuen has a brother and sister in Kenya. His father died in 2011, and his mother, four sisters and a brother are in Kenya.
“We’re helping our families back home,” Deng says. “They don’t have anything there. Our country is still in war and people are still suffering.”
Someday, maybe as a nurse, she can go back to South Sudan to help the people, she says. “Maybe in the future our country will settle down and we can go back.”
A salary as a nurse also would help with the family’s finances – to save money for college educations for the children, help relatives in South Sudan and Kenya – and maybe for a vacation. Besides working at Adventist Health, Ayuen works weekends at Kaweah Delta Medical Center.
“When she graduates, I can work less,” Ayuen says. “And we can afford a ticket to take (the children) home, just to see it.”
Ayuen also wants to keep helping children in South Sudan. He has brought a dozen children to a school in Kenya, who arrived this month. “I’m the primary support for food and school,” he says. It costs $25 a month for tuition for one child.
Education made his life better, he says, and he wants others to have the same opportunity.
“I’m happy to give back, because I was a refugee like them.”
Barbara Anderson: 559-441-6310, @beehealthwriter